When words hurt

After a man had verbally attacked Buddha, he responded,
"Son, if someone declined to accept a present, to whom would it belong?"
The man answered, "To him who offered it."
"And so," said Buddha, "I decline to accept your abuse."

The world is full of people who establish their worth by degrading others. They have pockets and purses full of put-downs - and they will hand them out to anyone.
Refuse to accept their insults, even when hurled under the guise of love. By ignoring them, you will reduce tension, strengthen your relationships and increase your joy.